Life is hard enough without going through a difficult break up. Losing someone important can be one of the hardest things to deal with. It only gets worse if you find that your ex is dating someone else. If you are in this situation then following may be the answers you are looking for. Just realized my ex is dating someone else.
Is there a chance the two of us will get back together? If you and your ex were together for a long time, then there's still a chance. Even if they're dating someone else, your ex is probably still thinking of you.
Intimacy takes a long time to establish. The new relationship will eventually suffer as your ex is not yet over the past one they had with you.
This is why most rebound relationships abruptly end as people are not yet emotionally ready for a new commitment. My ex is dating someone else and I heard that they're serious. How could my ex move on that fast? We were engaged for a year prior to him leaving me, and we were together for almost four years. He left now me a little over 4 months ago, but we still spoke and hung out almost every day for a long time afterward. We also had sex often. Now he tells me he is interested in a coworker of ours.
The coworker is 17, and my ex is trying to pursue a relationship with him. Two days before they hung out for the first time, my ex and I had sex for what may be the last time.
He said he wanted to focus on the possible new relationship with the coworker and not think about our past because it still hurts him. I would like to be friends with him too. But the difficult part is that this new relationship will be right in my face on a daily basis. Keep in mind that your ex being only 21, probably has a different frequency from you in terms of what he's seeking out. At this point, there's a likelihood that he's still curious to explore and therefore might have lost interest in the current relationship to pursue something novel. There's not much that can be done at this point, except to either win him back or to wait it out and hope it's merely a phase he's going through.
I was hoping for some insight. We had been dating for 3 years. A year and a half of which was long distance.
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We have so much in common and shes perfect. Ive dated alot of girls. So we got in a couple small fights December and January over the diatance but still resolved them. In February I send her gifts for valentines day. Which she later said she liked. Literally days following that she tells me we should minimize communication because she has a boyfriend now. Which was weird because like I said there was no evidence prior.
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We continued to talk regardless a for a few weeks then she completely shut me out. Since then I wouldnt stop contacting her which was bad I know. I was in her city a few weeks ago and told her to call me so we could link. She called and as hard as I tried I couldnt help but ask several questions about her relationship. She said she cant tell me when it became serious which was odd to me. Yet she said she met him last summer. I got made and she said shed call me back never did.
I have yet to go no contact with her for long. I feel like she would of never called me if they werent. As you were in a long distance relationship with her, it may have been the reason she moved on to a new partner so quickly to which she may have felt a loss of spark for awhile but never had a reason to bring it up until she fell for someone else.
This would also contribute towards her being able to detach herself from you so easily after the breakup.
You should try going into no contact but not simply with the focus of winning her back, but more so to work on yourself and give both parties space. After NC has ended, you can decide again whether you want to win her back or not and follow the steps in our articles for more help. My ex and I been together for almost four years. Well anyway, he broke up with me almost three months ago. Life pretty much gotten in the way from a miscarriage from him losing his car and his place. As of right now he and her are doing long distance rebound and I want him back.
He told me he wants me to heal first and then he would be interested in pursuing a relationship with me.
Is there any tips for me? Perhaps spend this time working on things you felt could have contributed towards any issues during the relationship, and maybe even consider improving your appearance or working on your self-confidence in general. Use this article for more guidelines to follow. It's been well over a month after we broke up, I did the No-Contact for about 40 days.
She texted me 3 times during this period. I have accidentally met her with her new guy at a pub we first met - she doesn't go there often. The guy approached me later and we had a chat - now I know that they argue a lot and she was telling him about me much. She joined us and quickly became upset and angry, she asked the guy to leave her - he refused, seemed needy and was trying to hold her.
A few times he looked like he was about to leave, but eventually they both stayed for a while. When I went to grab another beer she was looking at me.
BUT - she texted me today asking why can't we just be friends, and repeated that we will never get back together. Then we chatted some more. I am lost, I was cool about them the entire time, but I want her back. Can I make it happen? It's likely that she still has feelings for you but has developed an internal conflict with herself because she's still in a relationship, hence her sudden text to you to try and validate her own thoughts.
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You did fine by acting cool throughout, and you could continue to respond to her in that manner and slowly show off the changes you've made since the breakup to come across as more attractive. Hi, Thanks for reply. I did continue to text with her, we switched to phone texts rather than FB messages. She is aware of my progress, mabe just not realised how much better I am now in full. But she again sent a picture of a gift from her new boyfriend - a laptop. This is another time he gives her something expensive.
I am under impression that he needs to give her expensive stuff because he has no value.